What is soft dom vs hard dom?

Soft Dom and Hard Dom are two different types of BDSM playstyles.

Soft Dom: A Soft Dom is someone who uses a less intense and more nurturing approach to BDSM. They take a gentler approach to dominance and control, relying on things like verbal cues or body language to guide their submissive partner. Soft Doms usually aim to create an environment of mutual respect, trust and intimacy, and prefer to prioritize the pleasure of their sub over their own.

Hard Dom: On the other hand, A Hard Dom is someone who is more intense and authoritative. They take a more direct and forceful approach to dominance. They may use physical restraints and intense sensory experiences to exert control over their submissive partners. Hard Doms may focus more on their own pleasure rather than their sub's pleasure. Safewords are important in Hard Dom play because things are more intense and can quickly get overwhelming.

In essence, the main difference between Soft Dom and Hard Dom is the level of intensity in BDSM play. Soft Doms rely on more subtle cues and aim for an intimate, softer experience, whereas Hard Doms use more physical and verbal domination techniques to achieve a more forceful and intense experience.